Where are you stuck?
Do
you have a quick answer to this or do you have to ponder the question
for a bit? Some things are way more obvious than others. You may be
trapped in a job you don't like, in a relationship that no longer
works or in some kind of life situation that is frustrating and
painstaking. On the outside, it is easier to pinpoint the 'place' you
are trapped in . However, I dare say: it is an interior place, a
pattern, a mindset, an emotion, an echo, a story...that is the true
trap you have'nt wiggled free from yet. Because if you had, you would
either truly change whatever is bothering you or, if that is, for
some reason, not possible right now, you would change your attitude
towards it. Either way, you will feel better. What I am saying here
is: you always have a choice!
To
begin your way out of the unwanted situation -even though it might
seem detrimental at first sight- one key to move forward is to arrive
at an inside place where you are at peace with how things are right
now, without putting yourself down for the status quo. And you might
find that some topics are related to each other in a way that was not
obvious to begin with, or they are linked in such manner that if one
of them is resolved, the others follow and untwirl easily.
There
is a book by Melodiy Beattie, that instructs you to find that place
of acceptance and work through things in a 40 day program. It is one
of my alltime-favorite go-to-scripts that I recommend to my clients
and that I myself use when I feel stuck. Do this program and watch
your resentments and resistances melt away!
